When you made the decision to move in order to deal with your family issues, your boyfriend didn't really consider it to be that big of a deal at that time. He chose not to say anything, because he assumed that the distance was an issue that the two of you could work around and overcome. However, after you moved, he adjusted rather quickly to your absence.
As both of you are fairly independent people, neither one of you was in too big of a hurry to escalate your relationship prior to your relocation. Since your move, Mark made the conscious decision to allow this relationship to fade away. Truly, the only thing that has been keeping it together has been you. There is very little attempt or effort showing on his side of this equation. He only chooses to see you when he is in the mood, and when it is convenient for him. He really isn't running hot and cold - it's more along the lines of tepid to freezing. You really don't fit into his life any more, and he doesn't have any intentions of making you - or this relationship - more of a priority.
Mark isn't prepared for or truly interested in taking this relationship to the next level - he just doesn't have the guts to tell you so. I'm sorry, Juana, but holding on to him and the idea of this relationship is holding you back from finding someone who truly wants to be with you. As painful as it may be, you really should consider letting this relationship go.
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